Florence – city of artisans…

My friend once asked me how I looked for places to go when I traveled to a city. I said I would usually go to a bookstore and grab a travel guidebook for references. You might think I am too old-school but yes, that is my main resource. Lately, my friend introduced me to a very good website called Timeout and I find it great as well. But no matter what resources you use, make sure you give room for random things to happen because surprises are one of the best things about travels right?

So the route I am going to write today is based on a guide in the Lonely Planet book which we found at our rented home in Florence, about the home you can read it here

I love handicrafts. So, immediately when I saw the title “Florence – city of artisans” while scanning the book, I knew I had to make it. And it has been one of my favorite experiences in Italy so far. Now let’s go!!!

We started the day with a cup of latte here

Me and my beloved Lonely Planet guidebook 😛

The places presented below are within walking distance and the route can be completed within one day at a relaxing pace. However, my advice is that you should plan in advance based on the location of your hotel so that you won’t have to go back and forth the same route (like we did 😛 I did not see it as a problem as I really enjoyed walking around the town).

First stop: Madova Gloves

If you are looking for something made in Florence which can be used “forever,” this might be the address for you. They have been producing and selling gloves (only gloves) since 1919 – good quality and simply beautiful. My friend had a pair of gloves here; she is very happy about it. Unfortunately, she lost it on a train from Amsterdam back to Leipzig – sad story. You can read the history of the place on the website linked above. They are also the ones making gloves for high-end brands such as Burberry, Worth and Worth New York, etc.

Can you spot some names?

Second stop: Giulio Giannini & Figlio

The artisan workshop Giulio Giannini & Figlio was founded in 1856, famous for its high-quality hand-tooled leather book bindings and marbled paper (decorated paper) printed with traditional folk designs of Florence. The current owner of the workshop – Maria (she is the 6th generation) told me that some decorative patterns we saw in the shops around Florence were originally from there. No products at the shop are the same as they are handmade and printed manually. We had a difficult time finding the workshop as the address was not as it was stated in the guidebook or on Google Maps anymore. The owner of a small shop around the area was so kind to show me the place which is now located in a small alley. I was greeted by a senior (who I knew later from Maria was her uncle and he is the 5th generation). He does all the book bindings at the shop while Maria is in charge of designing and making marbled paper.

One of Maria’s kids is studying in Rome and she was happy to share with us that she was very hopeful as her daughter was interested in keeping this arts and crafts alive. She (the daughter) plans to combine technology with traditional methods to create more innovative products. Talking to her reminded me of my grandmother’s work – we used to have a small workshop producing handcrafted sleeping mats and my grandmother was known for being the best artisan in town for this kind of handicraft – she is the third generation if I remember it right. I helped her when I was a kid too. However, my aunt who is the successor can barely continue it for many reasons; lack of good supplies for materials – grass fibers, as people changed to other industries to get a higher income and my cousin was not very interested in the work. I am interested but I basically have not got time for it yet and many techniques have been lost since my grandmother passed away. Maintaining a family tradition is never easy!

When I was listening to the story and imagining why they had to move their workshop to a smaller one in the alley, I felt kinda related. The good thing is that they are finding ways to maintain the family business and tradition and it is amazing to touch, hold and appreciate their works in our hands. For one swift moment, I wish I could do that to my grandmother’s products – she used to make beautiful hats too.

I think I am writing too much about this place but it is one of the places that made me think and left me so emotional. So if you come to Florence one day, you should go here! Let’s support local businesses!

The workshop is inside this small alley
Different works
Artisan Maria and me ❤

Third stop: Calzature Francesco da Firenze

This shop is special. If you want to get inside, you have to ring, which I found pretty interesting. It showed how focused the artisans were on creating their works. You can see everything from the windows and it’s lovely. The shoes and sandals are basic, but basic is the best, isn’t it? 😉

The street where this workshop is located is full of good stores and it is quieter compared to other shopping streets in Florence – I wish I had discovered it earlier.

Simply classic!!!

Fourth stop: CASINI FLORENCE – Palazzo Pitti

Well, among all the places we had visited so far, this workshop was the most commercial one but it also has a long tradition of making handcrafted leather products too. You can read its history on the website. The current brand-name is Jennifer Tattanelli – so I had to ask if the store was CASINI 😀

I met Alex who was very nice and helpful. It was his “first day” assisting clients at the store, normally he works upstairs as Customer Care Manager. While I was waiting for my friend who was looking for a pair of leather shoes in the store, I had a good chat with Alex and I loved the services at the store. They have nice designs but they are pricey too. My friend got a pair of sneakers which is pretty comfy to walk in it; however, if you walk toooo long, you’d better change to a more functional one.

Fifth stop: Consani & Giannini

Consani and Giannini is specialized in products made from leather. We came a bit late so it was close but we still could see a bit from the outside as the artisans were still working inside. What I love about Florence is that it is so artsy everywhere and people really “mind their own business,” 😀 they work with joy and passion and looking at them working is already a pleasure. There are a lot of materials and fabrics here as well – a great place to get inspired! If I come back, I will make sure to be more focused so that I will have enough time to come here early.

Last stop of the day: Profumo-Farmaceutica di Santa Maria Novella

I never thought it was a MUSEUM! We had a big surprise here. I was glad we made it the last stop of the day as after moving around the whole day, it was really relaxing getting inside and smelling the exotic fragrance here. Buuut you can be overwhelmed as they have hundreds of fragrances and most of them are just so nice and unique that you want to bring them ALL home.

If you would like to get a recommendation, here are the four products I love:

  1. Discovery Kit Firenze 1221 – you will get all of the heritage scents in one set so why not? People (including the pickiest ones) love this kit.
  2. Tabacco Toscano Soap – I do not need to tell much about this product as it has been their best seller ever since. I myself have never tried anything “tobacco” but I love this one too.
  3. Sali di Lavanda – I got one for myself as it is very relaxing to smell – you can put on your pillow one or two drops for a good sleep. Can be a great gift for people who are under a lot of pressure or stress.
  4. Aceto Aromatico – well, the story is pretty INTERESTING so I copy it here from their website (the lovely lady at the shop told me about it) – “This Aromatic Vinegar, traditionally known as Vinegar of the Seven Thieves, appeared in Toulouse during the terrible plague epidemic that struck the city between 1628 and 1631. Legend has it that it was used by seven thieves, each of whom knew a component and ignored the other six. This remedy allowed them to plunder the sick without being contaminated. It was passed on the hands and face or burned in homes to protect themselves from contagious diseases.” You can buy it as a gift for someone who works so hard and sometimes needs a “real wake up” or a mood booster 😉
The workshop is also a museum – from the photo you can tell right? 😉

Special stop of the trip: No Name

On our first day in Florence, we had a leisure evening walk to our dinner place. And because we were new in the city, everything excited us so a walk of one kilometer took us forever, literally forever – I thought if I were walking with my “german friend,” he would have arrived in Rome while I was still struggling around Florence. But yes, long story short, because we walked so slowly that we came across a very special workshop. I did not think it was a workshop myself as the first thing that caught my attention was a man playing piano inside and there was no sign telling me “this is a shop” – no name at all. My friend and I were curiously “spying” the products inside the shop – it’s all fur. We were like “do you wanna get inside?” “yeah but I do not want to disturb the man… (who is obviously occupied with music)” But “do you wanna see it?” “yeah but but but…” hahaha

My friend said environmentalists would hate this place and I kinda agreed with her. But on the other hand, if you think of the heritage side of the place – Florence itself, you might have a lighter perspective on this. Some workshops have been there for many many generations and people do it out of passion and it’s a beautiful thing, isn’t it? Especially places like these do not sell their products commercially; everything here is tailormade I guess. Finally, he saw us so he opened the door and welcomed us inside. I have never touched any products made from real fur myself so it was also an experience for me. The hat I touched was made of beaver fur. Beavers are so cute and I saw them in Leipzig sometimes so even though I was curious about the origin of the fur and how he got it, I did not ask further.

His works are amazing and he is a true artisan – the aura is irresistible! We looked around for a bit and left so that he could continue playing piano and enjoying his Friday night – the scene is like from a poem or a painting 😀

If you want to visit the workshop, it’s close to a shop called Trattoria.

Update: I think I found it on Google Maps – so the place is called Pellicceria Gionata Cozzi 😉

Pellicceria Gionata Cozzi

And if you love Florence like I do, you will find this book very very interesting!

See you next time, when I will write about my experience in Milan and Rome 😉

Amsterdam… and my friend texted me, “So, which are the coolest coffee shops?”

After around three years of living in Germany, I am now accustomed to the coffee flavors here. Coming from Vietnam – a country famous for its strong and dark coffee, it takes some time for me to really appreciate the European taste of coffee. There is a huge difference between Arabica beans and Robusta beans and where I am from, we drink most of the time Robusta beans. But finally, now I can say that I am as happy with a cup of café latte as with one of Café Sữa Đá. But wait…nothing can beat a cup of Café Sữa Đá in the summer!

The appreciation is the result of hundreds of cups of coffee around Europe – I had a chance to taste, compare, and finally conclude some cities where I have tasted the best coffee. And some places are so cute and hospitable that I completely forgot the taste of the coffee and still can give it a ten! The one in Albert Cuyp Market in Amsterdam is one of them.

It was our last day in Amsterdam, and we decided to visit a local market – yes, I love local markets, but who doesn’t??? They are full of good stuff and by visiting local markets, we know a lot about people in the country we visit right? The materials there are simply RAW.

We were just wandering around, seeing things, and of course, inhaling as much as possible the smell of waffles and fresh produces – one of the very few places in Amsterdam without particles of cannabis in the air hahaha… So, we continued walking and walking until a small stand caught our attention. The barista was just looking around as there were no clients then and he greeted us with a warm smile (for one second, I had a simple yet luxurious thought “If only I saw this more often in Germany” hahaha). We looked at the lovely menu which was painted on a small board that stood in front of us. The barista responded to our orders always with “a great choice!” “of course!” “SURE!” and just by looking at him making our coffees, we were already happy. Why? Because he really enjoyed doing his work! People say we are what we eat (or drink :P) and I think that is true because we were very happy after drinking our lattes that morning; I guess mainly because the barista did sprinkle some joy and happiness into it.

After getting our coffees, we were standing for a while watching him talking with potential clients – who were still considering (I almost screamed “you won’t disappoint!!!! Just go ahead!” hahaha).

While making coffee for his clients, he talked to people who were still discussing if they should order a coffee here “Follow your eyes” “That’s a good idea!” – very gently. I can never do that. If I were him, I would pour coffee and tea all over the place. How can I look at people gently and advise them what they should select while performing a Chai Latte??? Impossible. But he was doing that. The smiles were genuine, and the skills were impressive!

After five minutes, we were……………still THERE… in front of that little coffee stand. He did have us as FANS! Definitely! He looked at us and asked if we needed something…and I said “We have not….paid yet.” As he was so busy right after handing us our coffees (after us, many clients came) and he completely forgot to charge us. Also, we did not want to disturb him while he was so occupied (and watching him working was also a nice experience :P) so we just waited there. Then we paid and left.

So, it was a GOOD WRAP for Amsterdam and we could not be happier.
The name of the coffee stand is Darras Albertcuyp (Instagram: darras_albertcuyp) and our barista of the day is Fadi!!!!!!

P.s we did visit other good cafes in Amsterdam, I will write about them in a more focused post about our trip to Amsterdam. See you again soon!

Of course here are some photos ❤

My Pumpkin Latte – why Pumpkin Latte in autumn while we can NOW 😉

My itinerary for a 12-day around Southern Europe

Countries visited: France, Italy, Spain

Day 1: Marseille – France
I took a train from Leipzig to Berlin Airport where my friend was waiting for me – she had arrived from Singapore. Then we took the flight to Marseille. I had never been to this city but always wanted to visit once; growing up in Vietnam, I heard about this city several times so I was pretty inquisitive. A quick search also gave me some lovely photos which definitely boosted my excitement 😛
We stayed here – the apartment was nice and had good value for money. However, it was a bit noisy at night due to the neighbors’ kids and the windows’ metal sun shields.
We had dinner here – a Vietnamese restaurant with a super nice owner. He is quite young and already has three restaurants. Their Spring Rolls were sooooo goooood!!!
Day 2: Marseille – France
Places we visited:
1. Alter Hafen
2. Flohmarkt in Marseille
3. North African Market
4. Notre-Dame de la Garde – save it for sunset!

Breakfast at Coogee
Dinner at Au Viet Thai – I love the owners, they are so warm and their food is authentic – and yes, authentic Vietnamese cuisine is very difficult to find in Europe as most of the restaurants would change a bit the flavors to fit the locals’ taste. BEST BUN BO HUE in Europe so far!
Day 3: Marseille – train to Paris
We arrived in Paris at around 5PM. We stayed here – very basic hotel but the location is good and very close to the Metro and bus station. Early in the morning on weekends, you can visit local markets which are just steps from the hotel – buy some sweets and flowers there, they are the best!
Dinner at Casa Angeli and then we went around to see “Paris by night” 😉
Day 4: Paris
Breakfast at Cafe Obrkof – very good scones and banana bread
Then we walked around for croissants and chocolate tasting. We bought some nice chocolate here at Jacques Genin – the story of his passion for inventing different flavors of chocolate is worth reading too!
My friend wanted to do some shopping so of course we went to Avenue des Champs
Dinner at Chongqing-Liuyishou-hot-pot – I do not recommend this place despite the food being fine – each person has to order their own pot and normally the fun of eating hotpot is eating together and having one for myself was really a lot, so we could not finish our own pot… and I do not like leaving food like that but we just could not eat more…
Day 5: Paris
Places we visited:
1. Louvre (outside only)
2. Not a “place” but it was so good that I decided that it should be here: Dunes Blanches – the best Choux Pastry I have ever tried – we saw it on our way to the “boutiques street” and the display of the store was super eye-catching so we got inside. They sell only two types of Choux Puff, unfortunately, the other was sold out (literally I was just one second late as the one in front of me took the very-last-one) so we only had a chance to try one – was good enough for us to come back next time!
3. Boutique streets – you can start from Dunes Blanches and walk around the area, many local brands are there – good styles but the price is not low. You might also find hidden cafes or pizzerias along the alleys. I love seeing Parisians having coffee or enjoying their meals – it’s just simply classic. I don’t know how to explain but you will know it once you’re in Paris and everyone MUST visit Paris at least once. That night as we were slowly ending our walking route, we saw the full moon.
Day 6: Paris – took flight to Florence – Italy
I loved the airport of Florence – small and right at the train station – the mountainous backdrop makes it even lovelier.
Lunch at Caffè Le Rose which is right at the Central Station; it is not highly rated but I remember we had good chocolate choux puffs with fresh cream, main dishes were okay.
Then from there we walked to our “home” in Florence which I rated 10/10.
This is the place.
Our host Marco recommended some GOOD places that locals love; some we could not book a table, but were lucky to have one that accepted us 😉 Here is the list:
1. Il Guscio – Marco loves it and WE LOVED IT! (My friend said the pasta of ragu rabbit was a bit too salty for her but for me, the taste was not too bad, my dish of duck with orange sauce was really really nice). Their LAVA cake is the best!
2. Angiolino – Ai 13 Arrosti booking a table in advance is a must – we could not book it even 2-3 hours (or even days if I remember it right) before dinner time. Maybe next time 😉
3. Il Santo Bevitore same situation as Angiolino :(((
4. Gelateria La Carraia Marco is not a big fan of gelato as we are (who doesn’t love gelato btw??? :D) but yeah that’s what I love about him – he is very honest with everything. So he said this place was “checked” and confirmed as “the best in Florence” by his friend who used to work as a chef at Four Seasons. Well, he was a chef at Four Seasons so we should listen right? And we LOVED it! (I know you might already think I love everything here but yessss it is also the truth!)
5. Trattoria Napoleone – another place for gelato fans but they do serve food. We did not have time to try this place so until next time 😉
Day 7: Florence
As my friend said Florence itself was like a museum so for this lovely city, I will have another blog dedicated to “the one and only Firenze”
I have started with a small piece of writing here
Dinner at Trattoria VASARI – good food, nice people, cozy atmosphere
Day 7: Florence
We did a self-guided walking tour “City of Artisans” recommended by Lonely Planet – this turned out to be one of my best “local and cultural” experiences ever! Of course, I will write about it later also.
Dinner at Trattoria VASARI – because it was so good that I decided to come back for the second time 😀 I am very simple – if I like something, I keep coming back 😉
Day 9: Florenz – took flight to Barcelona – Spain
We stayed here – The location is perfect for exploring Barcelona. The area around the hotel is a bit sketchy at night but during the day it is nice. So make sure if you stay here, do not go out alone too late.
We arrived here a bit late so we only had a quick dinner at the airport and then took a metro home. We slept till noon the next day – you never know you are tired when you travel, only when you sleep without an alarm!
Day 10: Barcelona
Places we visited:
1. Sagrada Família
2. La Rambla
5. La Boqueria Market
6. Casa Milà
7. Plaça de la Virreina – very lovely area if you are up for a nice walk in the late afternoon and then end the day at a random restaurant with tapas!! We visited some cute workshops and handmade home decoration boutiques around here.
Dinner at Vietnamita
Day 11: Barcelona
Places we visited:
1. Barcelona Cathedral we had a GREAT morning enjoying the cheerful atmosphere of the “Fiestas de Santa Eulàlia” (we were so lucky to be here during the festival)
2. Santa Maria del Mar according to my mentor who is a world traveler, the church is the most beautiful one in Barcelona! YES
3. Park Güell a good spot for a panoramic view of the city. If you want to see the work of Gaudís, make sure you book the ticket in advance.
4. Port Olímpic our recommended spot for sunset

Places my stomach loved:
1. A27 Bakehouse https://a27bakery.wordpress.com/project-a27 – I will write more about this in another blog!
2. Bun Bo – not surprisingly good but a nice place.
3. El Casal Café Bar – Tapas, Vinos y Ostras I WISH WE COULD HAVE MORE SPACE IN MY STOMACH TO TRY ALL THE TAPAS HERE!
4. Some other cafes were nice but not WOW so I will skip them 😉
Day 12: Barcelona – took flight to Berlin – train to Leipzig Germany
We took a morning flight back to Germany so that my friend could see a bit of Berlin 😛
Summary of the trip

The trip was so much lovelier than I imagined. As I had been traveling quite a lot before this trip, I was exhausted, and not yet recovered from travels and work. One day before the trip, I had severe back pain – I guess because of sitting too long everyday for work. But I was glad that I made this trip and now I am 100% good 😉 Traveling heals, doesn’t it?

If I have to pick the city I love the most during this trip, it would be Florence and if you ask me what cities I want to come back, my answer is Florence (of course), Paris (because of its world-class cuisine and pastry and this is my second time in Paris but the city keeps surprising me in so many ways), and Barcelona (because it’s too big and there are still many places we haven’t visited yet, plus THE FOOD!!!)

What city surprised me the most? Barcelona! One week before the trip, I texted a very good friend in Costa Rica saying that I was going to travel to Barcelona and I was “not” too excited because “well, you know, it’s just another big city” and my friend said “Barcelona is amazing, you will love it!” So a little joy sparkled in my heart – I thought “Maybe… Let’s see” and I did fall in love with this city. The city itself is an artwork with beautiful and unique architectures…. and they’re everywhere. I remember one evening I went back to the hotel a bit early and my friend texted me “OMG in Barcelona you cannot stay home at night. GO OUT. Go see the seaaaaaa. It looks beautiful at night. Taste a lot of food there. Spanish food is really good.” The next day I experienced what my friend told me and yes, confirmed!

Just a little story in Barcelona. One evening, we stopped by a small shop on the way back to our hotel and bought some Ricotta Kunafa Rolls and Pistachio Baklava. As the seller saw the two of us, he asked if we stayed around the area and advised us to be careful, not to walk around too late at night as it was not safe for travelers. He was really really kind. Travels teach me a lot, especially about how to protect myself from potential risks. Many times, we have to put the fun and risks on the scale and weigh them. A lot of decisions were made everyday; where to go, how to reach there, if it is worth it trying it, should we spend another hour in the museum, where to go for lunches or dinners, what cafés we should make our stops, should we plan ahead or let the randomness decide, so on and so on. But in the end, we were very lucky to have met so many kind people and tasted a lot of new dishes and they were so good.

Besides all the nice experiences, I had a chance to reconnect with a friend I have not met since 2014 (or 2015). We were classmates at university but after graduation, we both went on different paths and to two different countries. There were some small hiccups during the trip and some moments of “why” (hahaha) but I guess we are still friends after the trip and this is more important right? To Helen: if you are reading this, thanks for traveling with me and thanks for always having trust in my choices – I know some you might not 100% like but yeaaah, we made it three weeks together!

Some shots I took, hope you like them 😉

Marseille
Paris
Florence
Barcelona

What happened in Florence stays forever in my heart…

Two days ago, I was walking on a bridge by myself heading toward the direction where I could get something for dinner. Then I heard a soft voice behind me…

– Do you know the name of this bridge?
– Me: I don’t know but I can check it here for you (me taking my phone from my pocket and preparing to check the information on Google Maps) Then he said something I could not hear very well.
– San Trinita
– Me: …(looked very confused)
– No no, I am not asking you the name of the bridge. I am telling you the name of the bridge (with a gentle smile)

Then everything started from there. He walked in the same direction as I did so we had around 20 minutes of walking and talking. It turned out that he wanted to go to Vietnam and was very curious about Vietnam and Cambodia. And of course, when it comes to this topic, I can talk for hours and hours hahaha. As we were crossing a random street and he pointed at a little hole that was so easily overlooked if I did not pay enough attention. I looked inside and said…
– Me: ohhhh a construction (I don’t know why when I travel I keep making very silly comments hahahahaha I mean it’s so obvious, I don’t need to tell a local that it’s a construction)
– It’s a school – a very old one so now they do the construction work to fix some parts. I know a person who taught here, she is very very good.
– Me: what does she teach?
– Literature and Linguistics

Then I asked if he was in this major as well and he said YES. I almost got starstruck when I heard it because my Bachelor’s degree is in the same field and I love this topic. So of course we talked about this and he asked if I chose Business because of my work. I said yes. He told me if I like something, I should work for it now because living is the art of NOW, not later (my mentor also told me so many times about this). We never know what comes tomorrow. He continued…

– …maybe next year you fall in love with someone and get married then it’s not easy anymore

He gave me so many other pieces of advice, introduced the city to me, talked about the hundred-year-old bridges, and shared with me what he liked about his hometown and I felt like I had known him for some time… Every time he told a story he would make a little pause, then look at me smiling…

– now you know something new about Florence

He knows every bridge and every building. The stories kept going on and on and on… but at one point I REMEMBERED I had to BUY DINNER 🤣🤣🤣 and my friend was (perhaps) dying hungry at home. He said we could go for dinner and talk more, which I really appreciated but my responsibility was big 😂. So I had to politely say no and he told me that he walks the same route everyday and hopes to see me again around the same time the day after; he said he lived on the other side of the river and if we meet again, we shall go for a drink. Unfortunately, as with all of my trips, it was packed so I did not walk again that path but I will remember forever the conversation we had and how he was so calm looking at me and giving me advice as if my grandfather was then talking to me. He also commented that my English had a very strong German accent and it was very easy to recognize. Got this comment from a linguist, I don’t know if I should be happy or sad about this 🥲🥲.

His name is Davide. I will always remember this experience. I enjoyed the conversation so much that I forgot to give him my contact but that’s good because it means I did live in the moment as he said. Every single person I met in life taught me many valuable lessons. The more I experience this, the more I believe that a random encounter in life can change our mindset, our lifestyle, and even our future. Be open and good things will come.

Then I went to pick up the dinner at a very small restaurant called Trattoria Vasari (small yet loved by the locals, specialized in Tuscan cuisine). I did not check any Google Reviews for this place nor search for it, I just got in. When a person at the restaurant handed the food to me, he looked at me smiling “it’s warm and homemade. I made a discount for you.” I was like… “ohhhhh noooooo this city is TOO MUCH.” The next day I did come back for dinner again because the food was soooooo goooooodddd and guess what they remember me so I got a discount AGAIN…

And those are just TWO among many little stories that happened to us in Florence. Everyday here is an experience, even the studio we stayed in is right in the heart of Florence and it’s a piece of history.

All good things must come to an end, so now it’s time to say goodbye to my beloved Florence, but sure, I’ll be back!

P.s the host of the studio where I stayed was just so nice and he even explained what my name meant in Italian. Very positive meaning and suits me just great (!!!!!) while my friend always teases me about it 😏😝

Notes throughout the years: 2018

I usually write down some of my blurry thoughts at the beginning of the year so I collect them here to read later 😉

Follow #notesthroughouttheyear to read some of my blurry thoughts throughout the year 😉

Another amazing year has passed!

I can’t say thanks enough for all the things that happened to me in 2017. I am grateful to be reminded that I am still able to work, learn, contribute and improve.

Targets are set and I am having another 365 days to complete them. In 2017, I tried to improve some aspects and fields, including Vietnamese history, Vietnamese eating habits, interesting facts about some states in the USA + some European countries, and the cradle of western thought starting with the wine-drinking philosophy of the Greeks.

2017 was the year of my first time to Ha Giang, to Chiang Mai, to Sihanoulk Ville, to the hidden temples in Siem Reap, and to many “new” corners in Saigon.

2017 was a year of meeting new and interesting people: a new friend from Switzerland who introduced me to South Park, a mentor (also) from Switzerland who inspired me so much and followed every single step in my career path, a client who took a 38-day trip I planned and gave me many pieces of wise advice, and so many so many other people and travelers I have met along the year. They are all incredible and add reasons for me to love my job.

2017 was a year of really learning about leadership aka having someone in my team to take care of. People say to be a great leader is not an easy task and I totally agree. I still find myself struggling and confused sometimes but life teaches us through examples and small things. You know, it’s difficult to be tough and soft at the same time, to speak and listen at the same time, to agree and to disagree at the same time. And all of these things make you feel like you are spending your life going way around and around. That’s why I am still learning. I am a happy learner.

2017 was a year of stepping out of my comfort zone and trying things I had never thought I would / could do. And it was good.

2017 was a year of saving. I am not rich but I did learn how to manage my money (to be honest, sometimes, it’s very messy)…with baby steps.

2017 was a year of tolerance and letting go. There were days, I felt so depressed that a tiny thing could make me explode…but luckily, I am still here. I learned how to let go which was easier said than done. It took me almost a whole year to start understanding it. I changed my way of looking at things / people. Believe me, everyone has something special.

I am grateful for so many things and I have always tried to express my gratitude throughout the year. I want to take this moment to review my 2017 and can’t wait to explore what life is throwing at me in 2018. It might give me some challenges, but still, it’s me to decide whether to face them or run away from them. No matter what life has to offer, don’t waste any opportunity to be a better version of yourself.

Happy Lunar New Year Everyone!

Me in early 2018

Notes throughout the years: 2017

I usually write down some of my blurry thoughts at the beginning of the year so I collect them here to read later 😉

Follow #notesthroughouttheyear to read some of my blurry thoughts throughout the year 😀

First Day Of The Year Of The Rooster – 28/01/2017

The first thing I have done today is to reply to two emails and find something to eat. I was sleeping from 1000 PM till 1200AM with an empty stomach. Now after finishing a big watermelon and as I am still awake, I decided to write something for New Year.

2016 has been a year of ups and downs, but mostly ups for me. I could not ask for more. I have worked with amazing people around the globe – that is the most exciting part of the year, talked to people I really admire and adore, got interesting books from friends and bosses, and many many other things that all together make 2016 an unforgettable year to me.

So far I still believe “Travel is my life.” I could not live a day without thinking of the next destinations and you know the best part of working in the tourism industry is that you will never feel alone because you are always connected. Pardon me if I am wrong but to me, people working in the hospitality industry are the most interesting people on earth. They always smile, they are so inspiring, and they are just great partners. If beautiful scenery, an incredible food scene, and a unique resort style sound like the perfect ingredients for a getaway, then a travel partner needs to be on the list. Trust me, traveling with people working in my industry will be a great experience. Anyone traveling with me knows this right?

2016 is not the year that I read too much. 5 books completed. But lots of valuable lessons left. I have started appreciating small things. Sometimes I felt like the time to sit on a rock and ponder a spectacular view, and the time to reflect on the meaning of life was more important than anything else. Being to new places, to the countryside, to the mountainous areas, to the poor countries, far away from things I see everyday, far away from the traffic jams, and far away from the life in the office. That’s when I start to appreciate things and people. I find peace of mind. I easily get angry but when I travel, I feel calm and my heart is pure. It is there is learn and absorb.

There were moments in 2016 when I was saddened and heartbroken. I collapsed into bed every night. But I do believe things will be fine again and yes, it’s true. Every issue is born with a solution. You can definitely solve it if you want to.

For anyone who wants to get a better job in 2017. This is my advice. First and foremost, take charge of your own lot and be fully responsible for anything you do. Support more. Create more. As I read somewhere “when you help someone cross the river, you will get there yourself.” If you are not happy with your current job, let’s try by helping people around you. When they achieve something, you achieve something. But choose the ones who are willing to go where you are going. I had a chance to enter a bigger company, but I chose to stay. You do not need to leave your current job to create a better one. Love what you do, good things will come.

2017 will be an unafraid year for me. I planned more trips. I must go to Burma. Chiang Mai should be on the list as there is someone who is too interesting not to travel with. And I will be back in Siem Reap. Let’s go Sihanoulk in the summer. I am still thinking about re-visit Phu Quoc or simply leaving it for Con Dao?

2 lines in my company’s Tet poem that I love too much:

“All life is a journey

So choose one that’s worthy”

In 2017, one thing I would definitely try to do is to frown less just to avoid aging so fast. I will try to keep my standards high. I will try not to “create a hard time” for my colleagues. I will try to be more relaxed. I will practice more yoga and start learning meditation. I will spend time with my family more. I will learn to be a better person.

I do believe 2017 is going to be a wonderful year. Wish you and your loved ones a year of Peace, Hope, and Abounding Love.

Love you!

Essay: THE BEAUTY OF BEING INSULTED

Dai Nguyen

May 24, 2021

Holistic Science

The beauty of being insulted

Three years ago, I started reading about Quantum Physics. Schrödinger’s cat experiment shows me that an object could exist in different states simultaneously. This leads me to question whether there would be any “truth” in the world as everything could be right or wrong or right and wrong at the same time. What is considered the truth for one person might not be the truth for others. 

We are living in a world where we try to define everything. The world of definitions. Humiliation or being insulted comes with negative connotations. We feel angry, sad, or disappointed when being insulted. There have been occasions when telling the truth or what one thinks hurts the other’s feelings. We use our reasoning to find the “truth.” And if the purpose of reasoning is to come up with the right judgments, why do we tend to disagree and argue over the supposedly defined “good”? Why is it so difficult to reach a consensus nowadays? Why do people believe that being insulted is bad and is it necessary to apologize for telling the truth? 

I find being insulted a beautiful thing. It makes me think. I could be sad but at the same time, I am happy that something could make me feel that sad. It makes me feel alive. It makes me feel human. And the only way I could feel that sad is if I felt something really good before. It reminds me of the diversity of this world. Every person has an ecosystem within themselves. If we have to put every single experience that a person has lived in their life together and how it shapes their worldview, we could have endless scenarios. If we want to create an understanding environment to nurture the relationship between individuals, we have to put all of the factors and experiences that happened during their lives into consideration. I believe it’s impossible to obtain “wholeness” or to understand something completely – we could learn about the brain but it is difficult to learn about the mind. We could learn about facial expressions, the gestures but we could never understand what the other is thinking unless they convey it. 

Living in the world of logic, there’s always been an urge to reach conclusions so that we could take further actions. Conclusions are drawn from reasoning, yet are framed by assumptions. Being insulted is the result and further action is an apology. The moment I feel humiliated, I lose a piece of my self-pride. I do not feel better when getting an apology after being insulted. Still, why do I want that?

It would be ideal to live in a world without “forced communications.” Silence is beautiful. Explanations could be good but unnecessary. When misunderstanding in communications happens, we need explanations from others to merely confirm our thoughts – confirmation bias. When it comes to communications, it’s not our mind that functions alone – communications create a web of connections that affect our judgments and the way we reason. With the same content, we might feel less insulted if it is spoken by a stranger than by someone we know. Personal reasoning is eventually a “group activity.” Reasoning helps us build connections, collaborate, and socialize; it also makes us overthink and generates more problems.

There are several ways to extend our brain capability. What about expanding our empathy?  

No relationship has zero misunderstandings. Then how to achieve collaborations on an international scale? The first step is to accept the complexity and not try to fix it but instead, learn how to live with complexity and uncertainty. Someday we will be ancient but we can choose what our history should look like. 

Die vier Fragen

15.02.2022

Ich habe gestern das Buch “Der Wald, Vier Fragen und Ich” von Tessa Randau fertiggelesen. Das Buch ist in einem so richtigen Moment meines Lebens erschienen und das in dem Buch Geschriebene geht mir sehr nah obwohl mein Hintergrund und der der Autorin sehr unterschiedlich sind. Vielleicht fragst Du jetzt “Was sind die “Vier Fragen”? Oder “Sind sie die vier große Fragen des Lebens: Wer bin ich? Warum bin ich hier? Was will ich tun? Und was will ich werden?” Nein, sind sie nicht, sondern es sind kleine Fragen, die wir auf unsere alltäglichen Dinge anwenden können.

Die erste Frage ist “Willst du das wirklich?” Die Autorin hat vorgeschlagen – “Wenn ja, dann tue alles, was nötig ist! Wenn nein, dann suche eine alternative Lösung!” Ich fragte mich, warum ich in meinem Leben bisher oft “Ja” gesagt hatte, wenn ich eigentlich “Nein” meinte, zum Beispiel zu einem Treffen oder, zu einer Party, zu der ich nicht gehen wollte, oder zu einem Film, an dem ich keine Interesse hatte. Ich habe dann normalerweise versucht, mich davon zu überzeugen, dass dies soziale Aktivitäten sind und ich keine unsoziale Person bin. Es passiert oft, dass ich bald nachdem ich dort war, nach Hause gehen wollte. Es gibt auch die Dinge, die anfangs schwierig und stressig zu sein scheinen und die ich deswegen auch nicht tun will, zum Beispiel Deutsch zu sprechen beim Essen. Aber das ist anders, weil es Herausforderungen sind und ich mich sehr froh fühle, wenn ich sie gut bewältigen kann. Das gibt mir ein Gefühl der Erfüllung anstatt erschöpft zu sein, wie wenn ich zu einem Treffen gehe, zu dem ich nicht gehen möchte. Ich erinnere much daran, dass ich Kopfschmerzen hatte, als eine Person in einem Treffen fast ein halbe Stunde lang über ein Thema, an dem sie sehr interessiert ist, erzählte. Nach ein paar Minuten dachte ich mir “Will ich wirklich weiter diesem Thema zuhören?” Die Antwort war ein klares “Nein.” Eine andere Personen konzentrierten sich nicht mehr auf das Gespräch, weil sie schon an ihrem Handy war und Newsfeed von Instagram scrollte. Ich wollte nicht mehr zuhören, aber ich hatte Angst, unhöflich und egoistisch zu sein. Darum nickte ich nur und hörte mir die ganze Geschichte an, während mein Inneres nach Freiheit schrie. Am Ende war ich ganz leer und kraftlos, obwohl ich viele Informationen gehört hatte. Ich hätte sie sanft unterbrechen und das Thema wechseln sollen.

Bei der zweiten Frage geht es um unsere Prioritäten. “Wie wichtig ist das wirklich?” Die Autorin gab das Beispiel Freundschaft. Sie hatte ein Treffen mit ihrer Freundin, aber kurz vor dem Treffen wollte sie nicht mehr, weil sie wusste, dass das sie erschöpfen würde. Ihre Freundin war single und sie ging gerne auf Parties, während sie selbst ein “Mutti-Leben” führte und nur an Wellness-Aktivitäten teilnehmen wollte. Aber wenn sie das Treffen absagen würde, würde ihre Freundschaft Schaden nehmen. Daraus entstand die Frage: “Wie wichtig ist die Freundschaft, wenn sie nicht mehr Spaß zusammen haben können?” “Und möchte sie ihre Freundin wiedersehen?” Es gibt immer andere Lösungen, das heißt, sie könnte ihrer Freundin entweder die Wahrheit sagen, dass sie diese Aktivitäten nicht mag, oder sie nicht das ganze Treffen damit verbringen möchte, dem Leben ihrer Freundin zuzuhören oder sie könnte das Treffen einfach absagen und die Zeit stattdessen damit verbringen, das zu tun, was sie wirklich will. Die Frage lässt mich an meine Familie denken. “Wie wichtig ist meine Familie wirklich” So lange bedeutete “meine Familie” nur meine Großeltern. Aber ich habe Angst, keine Familie zu haben. Deswegen halte ich meine Mutter und meine Geschwister in meinem Leben, obwohl ich tief in mir keine Verbindung spüre. Familie ist wichtig, aber nicht immer. Ich habe viel Familien, die keine Blutsverbindung zu mir hat und das ist mir genug. Ich denke immer, dass ich meiner Familien helfen kann, aber es scheint widersprüchlich zu sein – es geht ihnen nur schlechter. Meine Familie hat immer Probleme, aber jetzt habe ich gemerkt, dass sich diese Probleme lösen lassen, ohne mich.

“Was brauche ich wirklich?” ist die dritte Frage. Als ich über diese Frage nachgedacht habe, habe ich etwas Interessantes über die Finnen herausgefunden. Sie sind die glücklichsten Menschen auf der Welt, weil sie viel draußen in der Natur sind, sich in der Sauna entspannen, Freunde treffen, un Ruhe und Gemütlichkeit schätzen. Wenn ich müde bin, suche ich etwas zum Kaufen. Neue Dinge zu habe gibt mir ein Gefühl der Zufriedenheit, das mir helfen kann, Betrübnis zu vergessen. Manchmal kaufe ich Schuhe, weil sie im Angebot sind. Ich brauche sie nicht. Es ist gut, das ich mir diese schlechten Angewohnheit abgewöhnt habe. Es ist eine sehr gute Aussage, die auch simpel und offensichtlich ist, aber wir vergessen sie oft. Sie lautet: “Wir denken selten an das, was wir haben, aber oft an das, was uns fehlt.” In den letzten Monaten war ich oft traurig und gestresst, weil ich mehr Dinge erreichen wollte und ich mit meinem aktuellen Zustand nicht zufrieden war. Aber ich habe komplett vergessen, dass ich viele Privilegen habe – ich haben einen Tutor, der so gut ist und auch meine Interessen, zum Beispiel Tennis oder Linguistik unterstützt; meine Mentoren lieben mich sehr, ich habe jeden Tag gutes Essen und die Zeit, meine Hobbys zu üben; ich kann reisen, wenn ich will. Ich bin sehr dankbar, diese Menschen in meinem Leben zu haben. Was brauche ich mehr?

Die letzte Frage kann als ein Gedankenexperiment bezeichnet werden. – “Was würdest Du heute an deinem Leben ändern, wenn du wüsstest, dass Du in einem Jahr sterben musst?” Meine Antwort ist “Nichts,” aber ich würde erstmal ein Ticket nach Vietnam buchen, um meine Großmutter zu umarmen.

Ich bin so glücklich, das ich das Buch gekauft und gelesen habe. Obwohl ich viele anstehende Aufgaben habe, ist Deutsch meine Priorität und es gibt mir mehr Kraft, andere Dinge fertigzumachen. Jetzt fühle ich mich sicherer mit meinem Alltags-Schreiben und bin ich bereit für die nächste Aufgabe, die darin besteht, den schriftlichen Teil von TestDaF zu bestehen. Vielleicht ist dies mein letztes Alltags-Schreiben. Aber will ich jetzt nur noch schriftlichen Ausdruck schreiben? Natürlich 😉

A little story in Milan

A little story in Milan

Last night I walked into a small alley in Milan and entered a lovely art studio where the owner printed hundreds of interesting photos from archives. The amazing thing is that he (the owner) can passionately tell stories from every single photo. He was patiently answering my questions (some were stupid hahaha but I just asked). We had a lovely talk and he said I could pick two more photos for free as a gift. Moments later when he put on the glasses and started writing a story at the back of the photo for me, I said how nice his glasses’ frame was – because it was really nice and pretty unique with turquoise color, so he decided to give more me gifts 😄 – also maybe because of me mumbling some Italien words he told me in a very clumsy way but somehow he found it funny or (maybe) cute 🤣. I told him that it was okay, he gave me enough gifts already but still, he selected a photo for me and of course, he didn’t forget to tell me the story behind it.

Traveling reminds me of how lucky I am to be able to see the world and taste new food (sometimes good, sometimes not so good but memorable 😄) but among others to meet very kind people who constantly make me believe more in kindness and living meaningfully. Soooo as long as you want to know and are patient and curious enough, stories will automatically come to you.

The other photos I will keep them for myself 😝

into 2023

Well, how to start… It’s already the second week of 2023 😀 So in this blog, I will just write down my stream of thoughts – whatever comes to my mind, I will write it down. There will be no structure, and no focus points, whatsoever 😉

Many years ago I would start a new year by writing down my plans and resolutions but I already stopped doing it three or four years ago. It was when I knew everyday is a day to plan and work for my future; I do not need to wait for a new year to do that 😛

I have just come back from a trip to Switzerland and Italy with my very best friend from Vietnam. We have been friends since we were teenagers and of course, like many other friendships, there were ups and downs. There were times of interruptions because we both had our own group of friends but in the end, we crossed paths again. I am glad we did.

So for the start of 2023, I would like to talk a bit about 2022. I don’t know how to describe it. For me, it was like this: I see myself celebrating New Year (of 2022) with beautiful fireworks blooming outside my windows, then welcoming a cat named Su to my home on Tet holidays, clumsily holding a croissant in Paris on a summer day, one morning waking up with the sounds of a coyote singing to my ears, running around the Albertina auditorium for the conference, hugging and feeling the soft mouth the dog called Matcha in London, and then now 2023. All other events such as my graduation ceremony, my last trips, and other travels were not there. It was not because these events were not important but mainly because 2022 had passed so swiftly that I could not even feel it…at all. But yes so many things happened in 2022. I will take a deep breath and try to remember them chronologically – of course, I will not tell everything as it would take me the whole night to write them down hahaha. I will simply categorize them into topics.

Learning. Congratulations! 2022 marks the year that I graduated from my Master program. What makes me feel so proud is that I adapted to the international environment pretty well. There was not a single moment during the program when I felt alone or inferior. Being with people from different continents helps me a lot in becoming more cautious when dealing with diversity and understanding what diversity means – till today I am still learning. Being with people who have different backgrounds, opinions and ideals helps me understand better why the world is functioning the way it is. Diversity and differentiation help me explain why sometimes a nod of assent or a “yes” can be so difficult to make but it can be so easy if we are open enough. Despite all the complaints I made, I still think the Master I took is valuable in so many ways, especially when I talked to people who have never had a chance to immerse themselves in such an international environment. In the end, acquiring knowledge is a lifetime process and we can always do it with the help of many tools outside our school. The people we meet during our study MATTER more than anything. We might not remember the complicated equations in economics or statistics two years later (or maybe right after graduation, we already forgot them :D) but we will always remember that Silvia, that Lini or that Marcela who cooked the very good Gallo Pinto, Gado Gado, or the one and only shrimp pasta that we love so much right?

Change. As I travel with different friends, I realized change is inevitable. Someone you think you know can be a stranger to you at some point during the trip. Traveling is magical, it makes new faces become familiar as you make friends along the way and familiar faces become new again as you explore other characteristics of your friends that you never knew before. I am happy that all my friends decided to continue the friendships after traveling with me 😛 And I realized… yes, I also changed a lot.

Cry. I cried a lot in 2022. I remember one day in August I cried in the bathroom for almost one hour straight. I had a job at school organizing the summer university and for the first time in my life, I worked completely in german. I really really learned a lot but it was stressful, not because of the tasks but because of the pressure I put on myself that I must do this perfectly. But the job was not the only reason, other factors included, I tried to hold them all inside so much until that Saturday morning, I exploded. I ran to the bathroom, sat in a corner, and cried and cried. It’s completely OK to cry. If you want to cry, cry then stand up and continue fighting. That’s what I did.

Pride. People like my mentor constantly remind me that I should be proud of myself. I did not usually celebrate my achievements because I thought there was no achievement. Everything I accomplished is simply what I must do. But lately, I have learned to celebrate small things. Still, I am learning how to be proud of myself, step by step. My childhood plays a role in developing this kind of mindset. Getting an A or A+ was my duty and as it was my duty, there was nothing to be proud of. My grandparents loved me so much, more than anything in the world but they almost never praised me. I know why. They always wanted me to try for the better and they were afraid of me forgetting to strive for excellence if they showed their contentedness to me. So it might be strange but yes, pride is a feeling that does not always come naturally. For those who are reading this blog, you should be proud of yourself also.

Honesty. Being honest gives me a very good sleep. And as I get older, a night of good sleep is everything hahaha. During the year, there were moments of sadness, of uncertainty, of disappointment, of feeling betrayed but never a moment of emptiness. I think because I have learned to be honest. And being honest here means being honest with my own feelings, and with the answers that I gave people and myself. You might ask how it can be possible to be always honest; for example, when someone you love cooks something for you and you do not think it’s good, how can you be honest about it? Then I have a tip for you – I have applied it and it works. Emotions deal with emotions and rationality should deal with rationality. In that case, you do not think the dish is good but what do you feel about your friend cooking for you? Express that feeling instead. Instead of praising the dish, you can say you really appreciate the invitation and feel so lucky and happy to have the chance to be there spending time with your friend and seeing her / him cooking for you. Then you do not have to tell a single lie, even a white lie. As your friend cooks for you, he / she might be still very excited and of course looking for something positive from you, any analysis of “a bit less salty” or “the chicken is just a little dry” is nothing constructive but disappointment. Misunderstanding can happen. You can wait for the feelings to go away and when you meet your friend again, maybe a week later, you can sit down and say “do you remember the chicken you made last time for me….” then you can analyze and discuss slowly the “rational” side of how it could be done better. At work, I have to give a lot of comments on designs and this tip works just GREAT.

Below are some of the photos that I love the most in 2022…

I really loved working with them – I learned a lot. Prof. Dr. Elisabeth Burr is not a professor in my faculty but I did learn from her A LOT.
I worked with another team in SEPT for three months and it was really fun. Got this feedback from them and I discovered my new talent which is to play a bavarian Krimidinner and imagine that I did it in German. I died hahahahahaha
This photo because Su and I looked COOL

Photos of my travels will be posted in another blog as I have not had the time to organize them yet – thousands of them…🤪

To end the blog, I have the same question as always… I do not know what I would feel when I read this blog again one year later; who I will become; where I will be and with whom I will be,… many many questions. Let’s hope for the best and just continue being kind and curious. See you again in another blog 😉